Perceptions

Has there ever been a time when you have known someone then all of the sudden you find out that they are not who you have perceived them to be? Your perception of them changed?

Well that has happened to me recently. There are a few folks that I will not mention, have just taken me for a trip LOL as I have told peeps. Around me they are just normal people then you hear by word of mouth they are a completely different person who you perceived them to be. But the dilemma is how do you act once you have been previewed to information, do you judge them? do you act differently or carry on that nothing has happened? It's mind boggling and also intriguing how people play the part.

Last night I got a good wake up call from my peers in my class and also a dear friend of mine, at this point in age, its not all about pleasing folks and the you don't have to always be everyone's friend. But I feel it's in my nature to always save people, but I am realizing that one it's not my job to save people but to do what's right.